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1 in 5 Divorces Blamed on Facebook

- By - Source : Tom's Guide US

Attention married people: watch what you do on social networks.

Divorce-Online recently conducted a study and discovered that Facebook was named in one out of five American divorce petitions this year alone. The most common reason is that spouses are conducting inappropriate sexual chats with Facebook friends. The study, consisting of 5,000 divorce papers, also revealed that MySpace, Twitter, and Bebo also contributed to marital deterioration.

"I had heard from my staff that there were a lot of people saying they had found out things about their partners on Facebook so I decided to see how prevalent it was," Mark Kennan told The Sun. "I was really surprised to see 20-percent of all the petitions containing references to Facebook."

Kennan, who headed the study, said that the inappropriate sexual chats were the most common reason for divorce. He also added that, after scanning the Divorce-Online database for the word "Facebook," he discovered 989 instances of the word in 5,000 petitions.

The Sun also reports that divorce lawyers openly admit to searching through Facebook and other social networking sites in order to dig up dirt on the "errant" spouse.

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LORD_ORION 12/22/2009 8:47 PM
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4in5 blamed on the idiotic support system that gives girls a free ride.

Anonymous 12/22/2009 8:48 PM
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If they're stupid enough to think they can get away with cheating online with someone, what's to stop them from taking things one step further and cheating for real?

They get what they deserve.

jonpaul37 12/22/2009 8:52 PM
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1 in 872,575,283 Are the odds that i care, people are people, you cannot stop them no matter what. There will always be cheating. Facebook only widens the range.

jonpaul37 12/22/2009 8:52 PM
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Ps. More single cougars for me!

h83r 12/22/2009 8:52 PM
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jonpaul37 12/22/2009 8:53 PM
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Pss. Giggity!

bunga28 12/22/2009 9:00 PM
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Blame the partner, not the social networks. If there were no facebook, the spouse would still be an ass/hole. We have become a blame-game society....from the president down to the homeless person (the homeless would say something like, well, the government doesn't help me, which is why i'm homeless...)

touchdowntexas13 12/22/2009 9:00 PM
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This is why I only check my facebook once every week or so. There are just too many things that can go wrong on these social networking sites. Some people really aren't mature enough to handle all of the social possibilities I guess. It's just sad that people have to blame their divorces on Facebook now. I guess we have made the switch from cheating via phone calls to cheating via internet. But if you were going to cheat, why the hell would you do it through facebook? I don't condone cheating, but facebook is so impersonal. why would you not just call the person or see them face to face? times have definitely changed, and it's just my opinion but i think its for the worse. I love technology and networking to grow, but facebook sucks everything personal out of relationships. I think it's fine if it's a supplement to your networking, but it's sad if Facebook is your main source of talking with people.

*sigh*, sorry for the rant. i just find this all very stupid.

scione 12/22/2009 9:01 PM
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lol really? Don't post stuff you don't want others to know simple right?

astrodudepsu 12/22/2009 9:03 PM
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I guess discovering a lurid facebook chat is better than walking in on some random dude banging out your wife.

sunflier 12/22/2009 9:06 PM
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Quote :1 in 5 Divorces Blamed on Facebook

Yeah, cause I'm sure Facebook made them conduct inappropriate chats.

This is NOT Facebook's fault. Stop blaming something other than yourself.

maestintaolius 12/22/2009 9:10 PM
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So, what this article is saying is not only are homosexuals threatening the sanctity of marriage but facebook is too? I DEMAND LEGISLATION NAO!

zak_mckraken 12/22/2009 9:19 PM
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Yes, Facebook is to blame. Not cheating husbands or loose wifes. Damn you internet!

agrubb 12/22/2009 9:19 PM
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This study does not state whether the 989 instances of the word Facebook are from 989 separate petitions of the 5000 they sampled. One person could have written Facebook that many times in one petition and the results would be much different. Also, is Facebook to blame? Do we blame cars for killing people or the drivers behind the wheel? Sounds like Divorce-Online just wants some attention. This wouldn't be a headline if it read "Dishonesty Ruins Marriage".

jitpublisher 12/22/2009 9:27 PM
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Well, the article does not say Facebook is at any fault, only that Facebook was one of the single largest mediums that a person has to track down a cheating spouse's activities. Have not you ever heard the old saying, if you crap in your own backyard, you are going to eventually step in it? Using your social networking accounts to commit adulterous activity is just plain stupid.

Glorian 12/22/2009 9:29 PM
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sunflier :
Yeah, cause I'm sure Facebook made them conduct inappropriate chats.This is NOT Facebook's fault. Stop blaming something other than yourself.



Totally agreed.

joebob2000 12/22/2009 9:30 PM
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LOL @ statistics.

"Facebook was named in one out of five American divorce petitions"

"I was really surprised to see 20-percent of all the petitions"

"he discovered 989 instances of the word in 5,000 petitions"

Any other ways you care to say that the petitions contain a 1:5 ratio of facebook to facebook-free text?

How about explaining the likelihood that "Divorce-Online" gets most of their web hits from ads they take out on Facebook? It's pretty darn disingenuous to say "one in five of ALL divorces blamed on facebook"; a less misleading title would be "of people who share their divorce stories on 'Divorce-Online' one in five cited facebook as chief scapegoat". I bet at least half of everyone who uses 'Divorce-Online' is a regular facebook user, and currently has their relationship status set to "it's complicated".

gnice3d 12/22/2009 9:42 PM
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LOL - Who in their right minds believe statistics out a lawyer's mouth?
Sounds like LAWYERS are exploiting FB as a way to get their clients a nice settlement.

hakesterman 12/22/2009 9:46 PM
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There must be some pretty stupid people out there. They must be writting their password down on paper or not logging out of their accounts when there done. And yes i think if your going to have alittle innocent fun on the internet you might want to consider useing a bogus name and password and don't write them down or share your info with others and always log out of afacebook. And last but not least, you can paswword protect your PC as Well. Pretty simple i'm telling you!

hillarymakesmecry 12/22/2009 9:46 PM
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Get a Pre-Nup people. Divorce is here to stay. No one is dedicated anymore. Don't let some stupid ho steal your money with a 'no-fault' divorce.

tenor77 12/22/2009 9:59 PM
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Hey.....it's Tiger.....can you please take your name off your profile? My wife found my account and she may be IM'ing you.

captaincharisma 12/22/2009 10:04 PM
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i still get shocked when people take anything seriously on the net even if it is anything your friends say on the net.

man the human race is just getting dumber and dumber.

widcard 12/22/2009 10:23 PM
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Anonymous 12/22/2009 10:27 PM
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crysis is the cause of 39% marriages failing

sliem 12/22/2009 10:27 PM
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Omg, facebook is eeeeeeeevil. I will have no share of it. No sir. I'll also avoid internet and socializing altogether.

jerther 12/22/2009 10:30 PM
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joebob2000 :
LOL @ statistics."Facebook was named in one out of five American divorce petitions""I was really surprised to see 20-percent of all the petitions""he discovered 989 instances of the word in 5,000 petitions"Any other ways you care to say that the petitions contain a 1:5 ratio of facebook to facebook-free text?



I say 1:4

:P

luc vr 12/22/2009 10:48 PM
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divorce book after divorce book you will need porn book

Element0f0ne 12/22/2009 11:07 PM
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tenor77 :
Hey.....it's Tiger.....can you please take your name off your profile? My wife found my account and she may be IM'ing you.



Bwahahahahahah!! WIN.

jerreece 12/22/2009 11:08 PM
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hillarymakesmecry :
Get a Pre-Nup people. Divorce is here to stay. No one is dedicated anymore. Don't let some stupid ho steal your money with a 'no-fault' divorce.



By "No one" you're actually warning that YOU aren't committed? There are a few of us out there that still believe in Marriage as a lasting institution. Because, those who enter a marriage assuming it's not permanent, are surely more likely to end in divorce than a couple that go in expecting it to be permanent.

Anonymous 12/22/2009 11:39 PM
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There's a big difference between using FaceBook and Cheating with someone on FaceBook.

Just because someone uses a social networking site does not mean that they are cheating.

But the problem here is that too many of them are stupid enough to think that they can actually get away with cheating online without any consequences.

plbyrd 12/22/2009 11:59 PM
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And the number one reason for divorce is still inattentive spouses who take their spouse for granted and foster an environment where the lonely spouse finally has had enough and searches for attention elsewhere. Facebook is simply an extremely easy medium to find that attention.