Upgrade from 3110M to 3630QM

Possibly. Not only that, you may lack BIOS support for it etc - so it may never actually post to begin with (assuming it's not soldered on).

Laptops generally are not upgradeable, and socket matching is not the only consideration.

Assume you could remove/replace, unless the HP 4540S lineup actually came with an option of the 3630QM from the factory, BIOS support probably won't exist.