"Deactivating chat" just makes others invisible to me. It's no help. It also prevents my messages from coming as pop-ups, which is nice, except it still shows to them that I'm "active" so then I get a lot of "why are you ignoring meeeeeee"-type stuff.
I want it to not show that I am online/active (like you used to be able to do!)
I want it to not show that I am online/active (like you used to be able to do!)