I have a Sony XBR-55X810C and a Sony HT-CT390 sound bar. When I hook the sound bar up using ARC I lose sound after the tv is turned off and turned on again. I have to reset the connection each time. I tried digital optical and I retain sound however I can no longer use my tv remote to control the volume. I have to go into settings each time I want to adjust the volume. Any help getting my sound bar hooked up where it can be controlled by my tv remote and does not need to be reset after each use, would be appreciated.